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September 1, 2010
Dating can be a dilemma at times. You know that what you want to do is to attract more women, and be seen as the kind of guy that they want to date. You also know that you do not want to be put in the friends category with a woman. Well, then you go and do what you think will make her want to date you and… you end up right in the friends category, right where you did NOT want to be.
Here are 3 tips on how to make women want to date you:
1. If you want to be the one that she wants to date, then you need to be a little more straight forward.
Most guys think that they are doing the “right” thing by acting like they are not really trying to get a date with a woman. They think that the more friendly they appear, she will just naturally want to date them. Well, that is more likely to get her thinking of you as being just a friend than anything else. If you want to get a date with her, you have to be straight forward and not tip toe around the fact that you are not trying to be her friend.
2. You need to approach her with confidence.
When approaching a woman, you have to keep in mind that she will be making a judgement of you right away. She can't help it, it's the way that people are, including women. If when you approach her, she gets the sense that you totally lack confidence in yourself, then she is naturally going to feel a lot LESS attraction towards you. You might not think that this is fair, but it is just the way that it is.
3. You need to make her want you by making yourself look like the alpha male.
Humans are still pretty much wired the same way that they were thousands of years ago, and this explains why the alpha male always seems to do a lot better than a total wimp when it comes to attracting women. Back then, a total wimp meant that she probably would not survive and although that may not be the case today, women are still wired to make their judgments based on this. You need to be able to really give off the impression that you are the alpha male if you want to attract the woman that you want.
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Devotion is one word that many women dream of when it comes to their relationship. Even after months or years of going out with your man, are you still wondering whether he truly cares for you? Well, wonder no more - for here are 7 tips that would make you pinpoint whether or not he's for real:
He's around you most of the time.
As opposed to the uninterested guy who would rather spend his free time with his male buddies, a man who truly cares would want to spend a lot of time with you. For him, more time means more opportunities to get to know you better.
He's focused on you.
A man who truly cares is never distracted when he's conversing with you. Try to observe him while you're discussing something - does he respond appropriately or do his eyes seem glazed? If he listens to what you have to say and even has his own feedbacks during your discussion, then you'd know that he truly gave you his time.
He is sensitive enough to tell when you're having mood swings.
Women have hormones that dominate their emotions and it's inevitable that they would sometimes behave oddly. A man who has patience to understand you during these moments is a man that truly cares.
He's constantly kind.
There's no difference whether you're in public or in the privacy of your place - a man who truly cares would show you kindness all the days of his life.
He puts you up on a pedestal.
This doesn't mean worshiping you - he just knows how to be chivalrous enough. He's also passionate, tender, and ever-caring.
He openly communicates with you.
If he cares for you, then he'll keep no secrets from you. He'll want to share his feelings and thoughts with you and he does this because he's already comfortable with you as his companion. You're the primary person that comes to his mind when it comes to opening up his deepest feelings.
Try taking some time off…
…and if he starts calling you a few hours after you're gone, then it means that he cares about you so much. He will also keep calling you during your absence just so he can make sure that you're okay. And observe how he behaves when you come back - if he comes running to you, all excited and happy, then he definitely, truly cares!
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If you want to keep from chasing your boyfriend away be careful of what you do and how you act around him. Guys have a different way of seeing things than girls and might miss interpret something you do incorrectly which can lead to problems. The last thing you want is for him to get the wrong message about something.
Between the two of you, do not scrutinize his past life. This concerns things like old girlfriends or other personal stuff. You may not mean anything by it, your just curios, but your boyfriend can think you a prying into his past and may resent it. If he gets real comfortable with you, some of this information may come out anyway from him.
If you try to make him into something he is not, he will resent this also. He has been who he is for his who life so if you can not deal with it move on. Accept him for who he is and leave it alone, if you keep pushing an image change on him he will go away.
Do not be possessive of him and ask him where he is going and where he has been. If he is being faithful to you and you keep checking up on him, he will have enough and leave you. Also do not be overly attentive of his every need, give him his independence to take care of himself sometimes and to be able to do things for you. Treat each other with respect and you will be happier for it.
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August 31, 2010
Don't get frustrated with yourself. In order to win your ex, follow these easy methods.
The very first important thing is that you need to realise the reasons why your ex-girlfriend left you. Take a plain paper and write down your positive points and negative points. Try to find out your shortcomings by discussing with your friends and give time to work on it. This will not reflect the reasons immediately. You need to spend about one month for improving your personality in all positive aspects and keeping track of your progress.
After that, convince your ex through her friends that you are changed now. You should make her feel that you still love her and care about her feelings. You can honestly tell this to her friends.
Every person has some weaknesses. Do accept your weakness and give priority to remove it completely. There are certain reasons for which your ex may have left you and these reasons could be as wild as wearing dirty clothes, smoking cigarettes or consume alcoholic drinks. You need to control your mind and avoid using these things to get your ex back.
The next thing you can do is collect the information about your ex in detail. You can get this information from her friends and you can ask them about her likes and dislikes and keep thinking on methods of matching her requirements. Always make sure that you behave exactly as she likes.
You should also learn of her daily schedule and so you will be able to meet her if you keep crossing her path and this will help you to get closer to her again. If she really love you, she will get back to you when she repeatedly sees you.
There are some special programs broadcast on radio during night hours. Listen to these programs that give away tips which will help to solve your problem.
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August 30, 2010
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A step in the process of attracting and keeping a man might be called catch. You can attract, but you can't keep a man until you have the man. For this reason, let's concern ourselves with all three steps rolled into one. Here are some tried and true things necessary for your success in this regard of attracting and keeping your catch.
Dress Provocatively
It may sound like the obvious thing to do, but some women don't have a clue how men like to see their women. You'll need to find that out what he wants first. Don't go by the cliche of what most men like. He may be looking for something else entirely.
Decide What You are Willing to Do
When you've gotten his interest and the two of you are becoming an item, you must make the choice of the next step. How far will you go to make this man your own? No one can give you the answer. This is the key to getting his undivided affection, and much of it is based on instinct.
Know When to Give Space
When you are confident that he's committed to you, understand that he wants to go outside of the relationship for guy things. He may never tell you how he feels, but you have to know. You need to let go some to show you trust him.
Find out What He Likes
Whether in the bedroom, kitchen, or anywhere else, learn what he desires. Try to give him all the things that he could possibly want. Don't speak to him as if you are doing him a favor. You have to give without expecting a thank you.
Never Go to Sleep without Resolving an Argument
Everyone has spats. The longer one goes on, the more it hurts those involved and the relationship. Find a resolution to whatever the problem might be. Sometimes this means apologizing even when you don't feel completely to blame.
Stay Fit and Attractive
Don't let yourself go because you won his attention. Men may get to looking around again if their lady friends let themselves get out of shape. You owe it to yourself to stay your best. He won't need to look elsewhere if what he likes is right in front of him.
Learn to Go His Way
You may need to learn to appreciate some sports or other events that you never had experience with before meeting him. Showing interest will keep your man closer to you. If some of his interests are so foreign to you that you can't bear them, you might need to reconsider your partner. Keeping a man isn't very appealing if he's the wrong man.
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Guys love to play all sorts of games with their girlfriends and believe it when someone tells you that they have more than one. You need to be ready anytime your man plays any of his tricks on you and the best way to tackle it is by reacting well to them. Here are seven tips on how you should react when a mind game is hurled at your direction:
Relax even though you are bothered.
First of all, relax. It is really frustrating when you man keeps playing these mind games but you have to remember to keep your composure. When you are bothered, then there is no one else who wins but your man. These games are easy to beat, so you need to remember to just calm down and face them.
Learn if he's tried this game before.
There is a big chance that he just plays the same old games he's played on you in the past. If you've already encountered a similar incident, then it wouldn't be difficult for you to go through this again. But you would know what to do this time around.
Find a way out of this trap.
Using your past experiences can help you find a way out of the traps of his mind games. You need to learn how to beat them, and not let these mind games get the best of you. Face him head on and he'll feel that none of his mind games seem to work on you.
Work on every angle of your defense.
Whenever you are played on again, you have to work on every angle of your defense. You always have to be on the defensive side to be able win. When it won't even work on you, he'd realize that he really cannot use these mind games on you anymore and, therefore, he'd stop.
Do not overreact, or even show emotion.
When he plays another guessing game on you again, even when you told him to stop, then do not overreact. Do not go to the point of crying and wanting to breaking up with him. He might just be using this as a test if you really like him.
Aside from being non-melodramatic, you should also learn to diffuse your anger.
The usual reaction is definitely to get angry for who wouldn't get tired of being played on, right? However, getting angry would never solve anything, or even make things better. Stop gritting your teeth and start discussing things with him instead.
Try the same trick on him.
The last thing for you to try is to also do the same tricks on him, in short, give him a dose of his own bitter medicine. When he experiences it, he would realize that it feels awful to be played like this. Hopefully, this should be enough to make him stop.
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August 29, 2010
While getting the first date might kind of be a challenge, the real challenge for most guys is getting her out again. The second and third date are not going to happen unless you get the first date right. What most guys focus on when they are on the first date, is to kind of do their best “interview” that they can and hope that is enough to make her want to go out on a another date.
The problem is, when you take her out and treat it like an interview, you are pretty much making it almost impossible to get the second date with a woman.
Why?
Because an interview style date is downright BORING. Seriously, a woman doe snot want to be taken out on the cliche dinner and be pressed with questions and be hit with small talk about jobs, careers, and whatever boring topic that you can pull from out of thin air.
HERE'S HOW TO MAKE HER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN…
If you want to get her to want to see you again, then the first date with her has to be FUN. If she has a good time when she is out with you, and if she is smiling from ear to ear, then you can be sure that when you want to see her again, she will be more than glad to. Of course, you don't just want to stop at having fun with her, you want to be flirty and what they hey, you also want to make her feel some twinges of sexual attraction.
If you can to all of this, then getting a second date with a woman is practically guaranteed. Of course, there are many more things that you can do that will “raise the bar” and make you seem even more attractive to a woman, but that's for the second and the third date.
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If you want to keep from chasing your boyfriend away be careful of what you do and how you act around him. Guys have a different way of seeing things than girls and might miss interpret something you do incorrectly which can lead to problems. The last thing you want is for him to get the wrong message about something.
Between the two of you, do not scrutinize his past life. This concerns things like old girlfriends or other personal stuff. You may not mean anything by it, your just curios, but your boyfriend can think you a prying into his past and may resent it. If he gets real comfortable with you, some of this information may come out anyway from him.
If you try to make him into something he is not, he will resent this also. He has been who he is for his who life so if you can not deal with it move on. Accept him for who he is and leave it alone, if you keep pushing an image change on him he will go away.
Do not be possessive of him and ask him where he is going and where he has been. If he is being faithful to you and you keep checking up on him, he will have enough and leave you. Also do not be overly attentive of his every need, give him his independence to take care of himself sometimes and to be able to do things for you. Treat each other with respect and you will be happier for it.
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August 27, 2010
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